The Loneliness Men Don't Talk About
I know what it feels like to be surrounded by people and still feel completely unknown. Not the obvious kind of lonely. The kind that hides in plain sight.
The Weight We Carry
I didn't know until I was well into adulthood that breathing from my belly was even possible. It took years to understand what my body had been quietly telling me.
Pull Up a Chair
Most men aren't looking for someone to fix them. They're looking for somewhere honest to land for a few minutes. Wonder & Wander is that place.
Where Greer Counseling Stands on Conversion Therapy
Here at Greer Counseling, I adamantly oppose conversion therapy, and it will never be part of the work done here. Evidence is clear that it creates harm, especially for the young people that legal bans on the practice seek to protect.. A court ruling does not change the evidence or practice here at Greer Counseling.
Helping people work through shame in their life is a common part of my practice, and I will never practice in a way that clearly only deepens that shame. All people are welcome here - as they are.
The Opposite of Loneliness: What We’re Really Searching For
So often, men show up to counseling feeling lonely, disconnected, numb, or distant. Loneliness isn’t just the absence of people. It’s the absence of felt connection. Our past experiences can shape our sense of loneliness, but learning to reconnect with our own inner self can bring healing. We can rebuild quiet solitude where we find safety with ourselves, allowing us to have genuine connection with others
What to Expect When Your Teen Boy Starts Counseling: A Guide for Parents
It can be challenging to know what to expect when your teenage boy starts counseling. This is a guide for parents to understand how I approach counseling for teenagers, what communication with parents looks like, and how I build a space that your son can feel safe to share and express himself.
Life is Traumatic
Complex PTSD isn’t always obvious. This post explores how C-PTSD shows up in daily life, why so many men miss the signs, and what healing looks like in therapy.
Is It Possible to Love Someone Else If We Don’t Love Ourselves?
Can we truly love others if we don’t love ourselves? This post explores performance‑based love, trauma’s impact on connection, and why self‑love builds safer relationships.
Deconstruction Featuring Rhett and Link’s Journeys: What We Can Learn
What can we learn from Rhett and Link’s deconstruction stories? Their honesty offers hope and language for men healing from shame, trauma, and disconnection.
The Role of Therapy in Faith Transition
“Faith transitions are challenging, but therapy can help. Discover how counseling supports emotional healing, identity rebuilding, and navigating relationships during a religious shift.”
Recognizing and Healing Religious Trauma
“Religious trauma affects mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. If you’ve struggled with fear, guilt, or spiritual abuse, this guide will help you recognize the signs and start the healing process.”
Understanding Faith Deconstruction: A Path to Authentic Spirituality
“Faith deconstruction isn’t about losing faith—it’s about seeking truth. Whether you’re questioning doctrine, struggling with religious trauma, or redefining spirituality, this guide will help you navigate your journey with clarity and confidence.”
How Emotional Resilience Fuels Personal and Professional Growth
Emotional resilience is the driving force behind success—both personally and professionally. This post explores how overcoming adversity builds the foundation for growth, enabling you to set ambitious goals and thrive in every aspect of life.
The Benefits of Confronting Spiritual Bypassing: Achieving Authentic Spiritual and Personal Growth
“Avoidance only delays healing. When we stop using spirituality as a crutch and start embracing our full emotional experience, real growth begins. This post shares tools to move past spiritual bypassing and step into authentic healing.”
Overcoming Spiritual Bypassing: Practical Steps to Integrate Spirituality and Personal Healing
“Spirituality should be a source of strength, not an excuse to ignore pain. This week, we explore how faith can sometimes turn into avoidance—and how to reclaim it as a tool for deep healing.”
The Psychological Impact of Spiritual Bypassing: How Avoidance Hinders Personal Growth
“Toxic positivity and ‘just have faith’ mindsets can be harmful when they become a way to escape difficult emotions. In this post, we explore how spiritual bypassing gives the illusion of peace while keeping wounds unhealed—and why true healing requires facing, not avoiding, pain.”
Understanding Spiritual Bypassing: Recognizing and Addressing Avoidance in Spiritual Practice
Discover the impact of spiritual bypassing on mental health and relationships. Learn how avoiding emotional pain through positivity or spirituality can hinder healing—and how to address it in a healthier way.
